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Homeschool Ideas & Tips Newsletter February 2005

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*** Hello from Charmaine ***  
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Dearest Reader, 
 
February – the month we celebrate love. Valentine’s Day is 
the perfect holiday to teach your family about speaking to 
one another with kind words of encouragement and 
affirmation - as well as serving one another in love. I 
hope you’ll try at least one of the ideas presented in this 
month’s article (below) and that February will be filled 
with relationship - building fun activities. 
 
Blessings on your day,  
Charmaine  
 
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*** In This Issue ***  
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1. Ideas & Tips: Family Friendly Ways to  
Celebrate Valentine's Day 
2. What's New with Victory Coaching?  
3. About Charmaine  
4. Quote of the Month  
5. Funny of the Month  
6. The Small Print  
7. In Our Next Issue 
 
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*** Ideas & Tips ***  
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Valentine’s Day offers a great opportunity to teach your 
family about love, kindness and relationships. Read on for 
some fun ideas that will not only help you celebrate 
Valentine’s Day but also promote goodwill and love among 
family members. 
 
But first, a short history lesson: What we call 
Valentine's Day was at one time the Feast of St. Valentine. 
It was a religious holiday. For Christians in the past, 
this holiday was a day to remember and celebrate the life 
and death of a Christian martyr. To help your children 
understand the Christian roots of this now very secular 
holiday copy and paste the following link into your 
browser: 
http://homepages.rootsweb.com/~maggieoh/Holidays/V/v1.html 
 
Here are three fun Valentine’s Day ideas sent in by members 
of a homeschooling discussion group that I belong to. Feel 
free to add to or change these ideas to fit your family. 
 
"Bottle of Kisses" 
Idea from Roberta Anderson & daughter Rachel 
 
My daughter (age 18) labeled a canning jar with "Bottle of 
Kisses" and decorated it with a lipstick kiss on the top. 
The front label reads: 
Uses: to temporarily relieve low spirits and bring a smile 
to a sad face. 
Directions: Read 1-5 depending on severity of symptoms 
Bottle will be refilled as needed. 
 
Then there is a side label which reads: 
Warning: Should be taken with a hug, but in the absence of 
a hugger, try a warm corn bag, or a few chocolate chips. 
Side Affects: May become addictive. Results will vary from 
use to use. 
 
The inside of the jar is filled with slips of paper with a 
variety of loving statements. For example: 
* I love your cooking abilities! 
* I'm glad you grow a garden for us to eat from. 
* Thank you for loving Christmas! 
* Thanks for falling in love with Daddy! 
* I'm so glad you love History. 
 
My jar is packed full of little notes, and I can hardly 
wait to read them all. They do indeed bring a smile to my 
face, and my heart! 
 
“Secret Post Office” 
Idea from Teresa J 
 
Our family spends February playing an exciting game of 
Secret Post Office. At the beginning of the month, each 
person makes a paper mailbox to hang on their bedroom door. 
We use a piece of 8 1/2 x 11 colored cardstock, folded in 
half and taped shut on the sides to make a "pocket" with 
the top open. (Manila folders work well also.) 
 
Everyone decorates the mailboxes with markers and stickers. 
I put a basket filled with heart die-cuts, valentine 
stationery, paper, valentine stickers, markers, and gel 
pens on the counter by our desk.  
 
Throughout the month we write notes, love letters, and 
letters of thanks and appreciation to each other and 
secretly sneak them in to each other's mailbox when no one 
is looking.  
 
When we first started this tradition, our children were 
young and my husband and I had to offer a lot of 
assistance. But as our children have grown, it has become a 
great tradition and a fun reminder that despite the 
quarrels and squabbles of everyday life, we really do love 
each other.  
 
I love to save my valentines and look back at how my 
children have grown. And I have to admit that I can't wait 
to get home and check my mail!  
 
 
“What I Love About You - Spin the Bottle” 
Idea by Heather T. 
 
Play a family-friendly variation of spin the bottle, where 
the person who spins the bottle has to say one thing they 
love about the person the bottle "lands on."  
 
And, just for good measure, here are a few more ideas I 
found on the web: 
 
Scavenger Hunt: You can prepare this one for your spouse 
or for your children to enjoy. Write up little notes about 
how you feel and what they mean to you and place them 
around the house along with a candy heart or other treat. 
Add a riddle at the end of each note about where to find 
the next note. At the last note, have something special 
waiting there. For example, you can be waiting for your 
hubby in a candle-lit bubble bath. For your children, they 
can find a teddy bear or other toy or treat. 
 
Coupon Treats: Each person can create individual notes, say 
4 or 6 each, to describe a special surprise such as a back 
rub, a special meal, doing chores for one day, a movie or  
video treat. Fold up the notes and toss them into a jar. 
You can take turns having fun plucking a coupon from the 
jar and doing what it says. 
 
Love cookies: Mix up a batch of fortune cookies (see 
http://www.whimsies-online.com/valentine.htm for recipe!) 
and add your own little words of love. 
 
If you’d like more ideas and tips about celebrating 
Valentine’s Day, here are some websites that might interest 
you. Copy and paste these links into your browser: 
 
Children’s Bible study on Love: 
http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pointe/7623/devotion7.html 
 
Annie’s Valentine Page Just for Kids 
http://www.annieshomepage.com/valentineskids.html 
 
 
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*** What’s New with Victory Coaching? *** 
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Thank you to everyone who sent in ideas for my Frequently 
Asked Questions page. The questions were very helpful and 
I will soon be adding them to my website. And 
congratulations to the winner of the 3 fr*ee coaching 
sessions. 
 
I am currently preparing a workshop for the March 2005 
C.O.R.E Homeschooling Conference in Duluth, Minnesota. The 
workshop is called: How to Create a Family Vision Statement 
& Homeschool Mission Statement.  
 
I would be willing to also give this workshop as a fr*ee 
Teleclass at the end of March. If you are interested in 
participating in this Teleclass just send me an email 
telling me so and I will contact you when it’s scheduled.  
Charmaine@victorycoaching.citymax.com 
 
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*** About Charmaine ***  
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Charmaine Wistad has successfully homeschooled her two 
children from pre-school through high school. Now she is 
turning her attention toward helping other homeschooling 
moms.  
 
Through regularly scheduled telephone coaching sessions, 
Charmaine helps homeschool moms identify and define their 
ideal homeschooling lifestyle, then make a plan and set the 
realistic goals to achieve it. She also provides the 
accountability necessary to carry through and have true 
victory. Charmaine helps homeschool moms THRIVE…not just 
survive.  
 
Be sure to visit her website: 
www.victorycoaching.citymax.com and sign up for her  
Free* Homeschool Ideas & Tips Newsletter. 
You are also invited to try a free* no-obligation telephone 
coaching session. You'll be amazed at how much can be 
accomplished in just one session!  
 
Email to request your fr*ee sample session at: 
Charmaine@victorycoaching.citymax.com. 
 
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*** Quote of the Month ***  
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“Love is the most important thing in the world,  
but baseball is pretty good too. “  
~Attributed to Greg, age 8~ 
 
"Love is the thing that enables a woman to sing  
while she mops up the floor after her husband  
has walked across it in his barn boots." 
~Hoosier Farmer ~ 
 
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*** Funny of the Month ***  
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Some barely funny Valentine's jokes: 
 
What do you call two birds in love?  
Tweethearts! 
 
What do you call a very small valentine?  
A valentiny! 
 
What did one oar say to the other?  
"Can I interest you in a little row-mance?" 
 
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***The Small Print ***  
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Spooner, WI 54801  
Charmaine@victorycoaching.citymax.com  
 
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*** In Our Next Issue ***  
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A special article on effective parenting from Scott 
Turansky & Joann Miller